Truth
Truth is a judgment, proposition, or idea that is true or accepted as true (www.Merriam-webster.com)
Truth is a metaphor to opening your eyes and learning for yourself. (some blog i read)
Kebenaran adalah persesuaian antara pengetahuan dan obyek (id.wikipedia.og)
Based on statement above I'd say that truth is an idea of true and its harmony with reality.
OK, here's some statement I heard:
"honesty is the most important thing in a relationship"
"honesty is the most important thing in a relationship"
Honesty is tightly connected with truth. and relationship is connected with love. Now, the question is, do we really need to be completely honest in a love relationship? because the idea of true is different to every person. Therefore The truth is is not always true to both party. So why do most women demand truths eventhough they are not sure if they can handle the truth?
According my experience in the department a good relationship is when both party know when to speak up, when to shut up. They say it's "understanding", I say it's "tolerance". To my observation, a happy relationship is based on lies (i lied about what i liked, you lied about not being jealous with my girl-friends). Yes it'a a lie, however this lies makes relationship more interesting.
How Interesting It can be?
It depends on you. If you lied about how you enjoyed her precense everytime you went clubbing, you'll enjoy the after party (no no no, not what you thingking, think future oportunities "ow he's just having fun, maybe I'll let him go alone today, I'm not in the mood". If you lied about that 3rd person in your relationship, make sure you won't get caught or it'll be a living hell. Yes, hell.
The Danger of Lie
No, not the fact that if you get caught you'll be in trouble, we call that consequence. The danger is if you keep telling lies, at some point you'll accept that lies as the truth, so does your mate, so does everyone else around you. When it comes, sometime you will feel bad about yourself, you lose your identity (EA: You're a fake).
Changing it will be worse, if you decided to tell the truth after you feel that way, you will be "The Untrustable". You'll heard saying like "I never though you'd do this to me", "aww man, you're so fake". etc etc...... OK maybe I'm overdo it a bit. But you get the point.
Change or Don't Change
It's completely up to you, my suggestion will be "if you wanna act, act now before it's way too long" Pride can be repaired, but trust does not come in cheap. Healthy relationship (according to me) is that both of you can say whatever you want to say freely, just make sure don't fake it.
According my experience in the department a good relationship is when both party know when to speak up, when to shut up. They say it's "understanding", I say it's "tolerance". To my observation, a happy relationship is based on lies (i lied about what i liked, you lied about not being jealous with my girl-friends). Yes it'a a lie, however this lies makes relationship more interesting.
How Interesting It can be?
It depends on you. If you lied about how you enjoyed her precense everytime you went clubbing, you'll enjoy the after party (no no no, not what you thingking, think future oportunities "ow he's just having fun, maybe I'll let him go alone today, I'm not in the mood". If you lied about that 3rd person in your relationship, make sure you won't get caught or it'll be a living hell. Yes, hell.
The Danger of Lie
No, not the fact that if you get caught you'll be in trouble, we call that consequence. The danger is if you keep telling lies, at some point you'll accept that lies as the truth, so does your mate, so does everyone else around you. When it comes, sometime you will feel bad about yourself, you lose your identity (EA: You're a fake).
Changing it will be worse, if you decided to tell the truth after you feel that way, you will be "The Untrustable". You'll heard saying like "I never though you'd do this to me", "aww man, you're so fake". etc etc...... OK maybe I'm overdo it a bit. But you get the point.
Change or Don't Change
It's completely up to you, my suggestion will be "if you wanna act, act now before it's way too long" Pride can be repaired, but trust does not come in cheap. Healthy relationship (according to me) is that both of you can say whatever you want to say freely, just make sure don't fake it.
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