The Players

ola, akhirnya gue kembali setelah beberapa lama gak update. been lazy guys, maapin aje yeh ^^.

Kali ini mari kita bahas yg namanye "player" di dunia dating. some call them playboy, playgirl, etc, etc, u name it. ini sudah jadi momok bagi orang-orang yg terlibat dalam dunia percintaan. Padahal kalo dipikir2, we all players karena gamenya cinta, but yg jago mainnya malah yg disebut players. kenapa juga bukan "pro players"? Ikut arus aje dah gue, buakakakakaka.

Guys (believe it or not) banyak yg iri sama para pemain ini. emangnye kenapa sih? apa gara2 doi menarik? apa gara2 doi bisa dapet pasangan gampang banget? or is it because they can get sex whenever they want? I dunno, tp g coba tulis soal pemain2 ini dr sudut pandang gue nyak.

The Player

 ada beberapa definisi player di dunia maya sana, here's one that I like:

"A male who is skilled at manipulating ("playing") others, and especially at seducing women by pretending to care about them, when in reality they are only interested in sex. Possibly derived from the phrases "play him for a fool", or "play him like a violin". The term was popularized by hip-hop culture, but was commonly recognized among urban American blacks by the 1970s. A certain class of low-rent, slack-jawed fuckups has decided that backstabbing and misogyny are totally radical, so the word is sometimes used as a compliment or term of endearment between male friends, as in the greeting "what's up, player?"" - Urban Dictionary

 Definisi diatas gak sepenuhnya g terima karena player gak cuma lelaki (walau banyakan lelaki si) perempuan juga ada bos. setelah dikasi revisi diatas, jadi pengertian gue adalah bahwa a player adalah seseorang yg memiliki kemampuan dalam memanipulasi perasaan lawan jenis dengan tujuan mendapatkan sex.

Kenapa juga kudu2nya perasaan yg dimainkan? well, according to me, perasaan adalah kunci utama dalam sifat manusia, if you can shape the feelings of a man / woman towards you, basically you can have anything you want from them including sex, yes. because sex menurut jaman feodal tempoe doeloe harus dilandaskan cinta. en masi dibawa sampe abad 21. it might be true though, because  konon katanya sex tanpa  perasaan rasanya hambar. en jangan lupa, cinta or napsu itu itungannye perasaan lho ^^.

Traits of A Player
Pemain pemain ini, biasanya ganteng / cantik pol. ada juga se yg tipe tajir, hobi pamer kekayaan bapak emaknye, en girls like rich boys. tp gue gak bahas yg model begitu, buat gue kalo punya uang, semua juga bisa. balik ke yang tipe pertama. 

Dari luar, banyakan si tampan / cantik / manis, jarang yang buluk. auranye kek magnet bro, bisa bikin orang nengok kalo papasan di jalan. Pengetahuan biasanya banyak walau gak dalem, trus mulutnye lacur abeees. pokoknye enak diajak ngobrol, nyambung, tutur kata manis, en rasanya kita orang paling diperhatiin di dunia klo lage ma doi. Lalu doi biasanya ud kebal ma yg namanya penolakan. ditolak bukan hal baru buat mereka. and believe me they have their share of rejections. Terakhir mereka punya rasa percaya diri yang tinggi, en sekali lage, karena pengalaman mereka ud banyak.

oh iya, jgn samain pemain ma tukang tipu yah. player will not use trickery or some sort buat pickup women, they are trained to always move to the right direction. buat gue itu teh sekilll sob. nggak bisa didapet cuman modal baca buku, kudu dipractice-practice and practice.that's why I admire them, they actually commited enough to become what they are.

Nahhh, hati2 kawan, the most dangerous part of a player is his/her skill to manipulate the feelings. mereka tau bagaimana cara lawan jenis mereka berpikir and they can make us do what they ask. kayak disihir gitu lho. kita bisa ngerjain apa yg dia minta soalnye dia bisa bikin kita demen setengah mampoes ma doi. and ketika sudah di kondisi demikian, we can only hope that he / she come to their senses and stop what they're doing. love's a bitch bros, it makes us stupid.

Notes:

well, if you guys like to read, sebenernya sifat dasar manusia teh ada penjelasannya di buku2 psikologi, atopun di dunia maya. sifat2 ini ada yg dikelompok2an menurut karakter,ada yg menurut bentuk wajah, banyak dah versinya. Percaya apa nggak, horoskop / shio juga bisa jadi acuan lho (menurut gue yeh). but only for general knowledge. kalo ud baca (teori) tinggal analisanya aja d, sama rajin2 aplikasi dilapangan, gagal, review, adjust, coba lagi, gagal lagi, review lage, adjust lage, until you succeded, try it.

Why do Players Play?

Nah ini bagian yg g masi abu2, buat gue sang pelajar, it's for the sake of understanding women, i learned about them for many years and still fail to understand them. and coba bayangin kalo loe2 pada bisa mengerti, bukannya gak mungkin bisa jadi the ultimate lover, and what do high quality items do to the price? they go uppppppppp, dicari orang lage. hahahahahaha.

Bisa juga buat aktualisasi diri, pengen buktiin bahwa "gue bisa!". karena bosen ma current partner, cari tantangan baru mungkin? ato mencari pasangan ideal yg bisa keep up sama doi? intinye si pengen buktiin diri bahwa "g adalah high quality lover". 

klo g tulis begini apakah pasangan ideal bagi players adalah playerettes? (hueahhehehaha bisa2an gue aje si istilahnye.)

Trivia: Do Players Ever Fail?

Yes, they do, many times actually. banyak temen2 g yg ditolak mentah2 pas pickup phase, ato yg tiba2 ditabok  / dibanjur pas lage ngobrol. ato yg pertamanya cuma mo have fun malah pacaran, en believe me, it is amazing how orang yg kita liat biasa ngerjain sesuatu tiba2 gagal, miracle do happens. Hallelujah.

The Players VS The Player hater

Seperti semua permainan, Para pemain ini punya saingan yg namanye player hater, Player hater ini sifatnya ngerem players karena mereka deligent enough to research mengenai orang yg dicap ma doi player and begitu ketemu belangnye langsung di broadcast ke orang2 yg dia kenal ('g tau doi, pacarnye dimane2, trus loe tau gak....") en mereka bisa dengan mudah bikin list kejelekan dan why players should extinc.dan parahnya, they spread like wild fire! yah gak heran juga se, seiring kenaikan jumlah player didunia, yg disakiti hatinya pasti juga banyak, belom yg kena sampe 2-3 kali...  

well menurut gue si player hater eta cuma orang2 yg cuma menyalahkan nasib  kenapa mereka kayak diri mereka sekarang, gak punya keberanian untuk coba ngerubah en everybody must be like him / her. 

I 'm not saying jadi player itu baik, tp player hater is worse. lame banget seh???? Don't hate the players, hate the game.

Monday, October 4, 2010